Lovely Thursday

Good morning to you all

Feel on top of the world today, like the shackles have finally been removed. Why I bet you ask or perhaps you don't care

Quick version I promised, my ex (Jakes dad) comes round our (mine and jakes house) every day when I get home from work till bedtime and at weekends is on the doorstep by 9am and stays all day. We split up when Jakes was 6mths old as only wanted the one child at the time not two! But I allowed him to come round so that Jakes got to see his Dad as much as possible. Now I've just got to the point that I want a bit more from life and ddin't want this situation to continue so a couple of nights ago I suggested (no told him) that I do not want him to come round as much and thought that seeing Jakes 4 times a week was ok and he could pick the days.
Can't believe it that despite the sulking and the looks he has chose 3 days, Mon, Thurs and Sat. I'm sorry but what a result

Talked it through with Jakes that as he was seeing less of his Dad, he is always a phone call away if he needed him. Jakes bless him said "What do I need Dad for I've got you" Gave him a such a big hug

And the princess lived happily ever after.
The End.

PS. Hope you all have a great day at CC and the cakey shop next door and hope everyone else has a good day whatever their plans as well.

Good Morning Di What a result, and what a lovely think Jakey said Can't believe you have put up with him visiting all these years Bet you will enjoy your freedom now after a hard day at work, you do need time to yourself

Looking forward to meeting up this morning, already seen something I like on the web so going to investigate that

Chat again later

Good morning Di, Jacky and all who follow, awww how sweet and a great result Di. Lovely here today the sun is out and its warm nothing planned except my flab shaker and maybe have a play with my new papers ive just got from the craftsuperstore they had an off of a bundle of chrostmas papers, could not refuse . Enjoy your day out at CC have some cake for me and leave some goodies in the shop for me too hugs to the poorlies.

Good morning ladies
and Di you know what my reaction will be......about blooming time Good for you babes xXx
Jake is such a sweetheart
Hope everyone has a great meet today at the CC and have a big ole slice of cake for me
Take care and stay safe xXx

Eating all that cake for everyone, I wont be able to drive home

Just to let you know that Frances (Craftymumof3) is not able to get on the internet at the moment Hopefully not for long

Good morning lovelies.....

WELL DONE DI!!!!!!!!!!Fantastic result... you should have put yer foot down before Missus!!! Sounds like you Jake has his head screwed on too, bless him, what a lovely thing to say xxx

Have a great meet up today ladies x All those on diets forget em, this cake shop sounds fab!

Jacky... thanks for letting us know about Frances..... she must be annoyed, she loves this place!

Jane... hope your foor is OK today and no aggro from your injury!

Andrea... have fun with the flab shaker! And of course any crafting you may get done!

I overdid it a bit yesterday so having a relaxing day with my back on a heat pad... getting the washing done before the weekend tho, so if it's nice we can take the girls out. Ady has booked a couple of days off Sunday and Monday and his regular day off is Tuesday so he will have 3 days in a row!!!!!!! That will be nice!!! Really looking forward to spending some quality time with him, shame he couldn't book off the saturday and have 2 full days with the girls.

You take it easy Lou enjoy your family outing , i must check my spellings before i post has just PMSL at the post i did earlier chrostmas papers what are those

Have had a brilliant day, spent lots of money, eaten cake and had good company We sat outside in the sunshine having a good natter - it was lovely Lexie and I went into the little gift shop and then back into the CC when Jane and Debby had gone and spent more Went shopping on the way home and didnt get home until 3.30 - poor Molly was crossing her legs I should have phoned my friend to ask her to let her out but just never gave it a thought, didn't think I would be out that long

well done Di , hope you have'nt been feeding him in the evening all this time.Now you've got tto get yourself some type of life !!!! I met Mick when the last thing I needed was another man in my life .and well the rest they say is history ......Trouble is as mum's we suffer with soooo much guilt, when really our kids know hey are loved and is'nt that he most important thing ! big hug to you Di and any one else who wants one !
Lou great that you and Ady are having some quality time , how you feeling now??? If we arrange a ''meet up '' towards Christmas will you be able o come up from where you are ? Be lovely to mee up .
Well , work tomorrow , good job too need to pay for my goodies !!! I was very good and did'nt put my shopping on my credit card , so we can't eat this month bu were boh too fatt any way ...craft stash far better for me !!! Enjoy rest of evening , Dulcie here tomorrow so don't know when I 'll next see my computer ! lexie

Hi ladies just popped on, have packed for the weekend will be going in the morning cant wait to go washing machine still not sorted chap came ut again today was so rude to me i burst into tears, my daughter came out as the man left banging my door behind him nearly took my dads feet from under him as he came down the path. Floor was put down today and looks really nice, went to cook tea and they have streached the cooker wire.lead where it's wired to the wall and now cooker wont work, had to spend more money on buying take outs (well we all had salad from subway\0 but could of done without forking out more money had enough of that when we had no cooker for a week. And was getting tea bags of of cupbard to take a way and everything started to slide towards me, shouted hubby and the bloody cupbard is now coming off the wall I am ssssssoooooooooooooo fed up with it all. Hubby went mad at them today and they are sending letters to appolagies (sorry cant spell and sssooooo tired) for the work man that spoke to me horrbly, well hubby is off tomorrow anfd will be dealing with them now so watch this space. Am thinking og going to CAB to see what they think of it all, well moaning again honest under normal situations i am a happy person lol. Love to all and hope poorlies feel better soon, have not had time to read post so hope your all well and that you had a great time those of you that met up. Be back on tuesday, love to all.xxxxxx

Oh Juli to you. They sound like a load of cowboys - unbelievable that they have ruined your cooker lead too So glad your hubby will be there tomorrow to deal with it - it is so worrying for you. Take care and enjoy your time away from it all

Omg Julie what a bunch of cowboys , you really need your few days away ENJOY ....

Sorry the kitchen is still causing problems. You seem to have had a much worse deal than mine. Mine took ages but at least everything works and the finish was great. Hope yours is sorted soon.

Hopefully by Christmas this will all seem a distant memory! Enjoy your holiday - sounds like you really need it. Sending lots of hugs and hope you